This is the extent of our decorations: a fresh wreath on the door by Jimmy's chair (INSIDE the house), and a Christmas amaryllis our sweet neighbors Dick and Lori Campbell gave us.

Thinking that we would be back in Atlanta for Christmas, Jimmy and I decided to keep things very low-key this year: no decorations, small gifts for the babies and his mother, and hugs, kisses, and checks for the rest of the children. We agreed not to get anything for each other this year: the only things we want, money can't buy.

We have declined almost all evening festivities, as Jimmy has not felt much like going out at night. Our total focus has been to do everything we can to get Jimmy in the best possible condition for the transplant. We feel like Rocky Balboa, training for the big fight.

A great source of joy for us has been receiving all the great Christmas cards and letters and emails and phone calls and food and gifts. They have boosted our spirits tremendously, and we are deeply grateful for all of them. Please continue to stay in touch with us, and to keep us in your thoughts and prayers. We love you. Merry Christmas! Ellen & Jimmy